Issue made by Kaffy’s Earl: How can I forgive my adoptive parents for lying to me?
My “mother” is native American. My “father” is African-American. I’m a blue eyed blond. When I asked them why I was different they said I was an albino.
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Answer by Pixel Perfect
Well clearly they didn’t tell you coz you were too young and immature so, just get over it ?
They raised you as their own so what difference does it make?
Answer by Unknown
well god tell us to…………. no wait, its teh wrong section..
Answer by Monsieur Creosote
tell them you’re gay
btw: Why do you have this question posted under 4 separate screen names? Has their deceit also made you a schizophrenic?
Answer by SilverLacedMoon
Well, I won’t try to understand what it’s like to be a parent but I’ll try to give you the best answer I can.
When adopting a child, I suppose most parents become over protective and they want to make the child as happy as possible. For most, they wouldn’t you to find out and feel like you don’t belong. I’m sure they love you as if you were they’re flesh and blood and I’m sure that how they want you to feel. They probably don’t think it matters that your adopted, but that you’re their child now. Parents lie for many reasons: To protect, to reassure, for what they believe is right. Sometimes we don’t understand and we get angry but we learn to forgive because we learn why it happened to begin with. Talk with them and express your concerns. Know that they love you and that they only want you to feel like you belong with them and that it shouldn’t matter if your adopted or not. The hardest thing to do is to forgive people– that requires strength in more ways then one. Life’s too short to be angry all the time. Each moment you spend angry, is another moment of happiness you lose. Give them a chance to explain. If you love them and they love you then it shouldn’t matter. They’re your family. ^-^
I hope this helps and that I didn’t upset you or anything. (not sure what could or couldn’t be said without offending or anything. I’m overly cautious about that sort of thing lol)
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