Their lie I forgive my parents.’m Struggling How to soften my heart toward them?

Concern courtesy of Puddles: I’m struggling to forgive my adoptive parents for their lies. How can I soften my heart toward them?

My “father” is African-American and my “mother” is native American.

I’m a blue-eyed blond.

When I asked them why I was different, they said I was an albino.

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Answer by Karma-lized

Trolls used to put more emotion in their posts.

Answer by not a happy bunny

All parents lie, it’s part of the job description.

Answer by MedNerd

agreed with Karma

Answer by student of life

aw that is cold, but maybe they didn’t know how to explain it to you…adults get stuck too

Answer by Hand Banana

How is this religious?

Try asking in the psychology section. I don’t know, you don’t HAVE to forgive them. It’s a free country.

Answer by Jasmine

I think its good to be different

People will remember you if your different

Who wants to look like everybody else that’s boring

as far as forgiving your parents goes

a good place to start

find your self a good church and start going regularly

For starters..

Then let God do his thing

Answer by purrrrfectionist

Often adoptive parents lie to protect the child. Some children when they find out their adopted feel that they were thrown away. Hence the lie. Some adoptive parents are afraid of losing the child once they find out they were adopted. Be kind, These people took you when your own parents could not care for you. Let them know how much they mean to you. We are all adopted by God when we obey the Gospel and heirs “according to the hope of eternal life.” Titus 3:7

Answer by seeker of jehovah

by salvation in god which gives us his love to forgive

Answer by tuisson

They made a mistake. They’re human. They did the best they knew how under the circumstances. They thought they were being kind. They were wrong. Get off it. What did they do that was right?

Answer by Courtney

The truth may have been more painful. I lost my children to addiction, and even though I have been clean for years now, my daughter can not accept that anything was more important to me than her. Another thing I would like you to consider is that these people chose to love you. All parents do not choose to care for children, but there is something very special about people who are willing to raise another mother’s child. You are chosen and you are loved. Is that not more important to ponder than a lie?

Answer by Ijah

some people are not convinced that lying, even to spare a child’s feelings is wrong. They did not mean to bring you harm. forgive them, they chose you for a child and went to alot of trouble to get you and were just trying to protect you.

Answer by hunnerbunner

Well, if you pee at weddings then maybe you actually have many issues and they are just trying to simplify the answer so that a dim wit like yourself does not fret over anything.

Albinos do not see very well, are you sure that your father and mother are what you think they are?

You are probably “different” in MANY ways son. Don’t fret over it. Be thankful that there is someone out there willing to take in a kid who pees at weddings.

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Their lie I forgive my parents.’m Struggling How to soften my heart toward them?