Question merely by Alleria Temple: How to run away from home?
Hello. Before you all freak out and tell me it’s a terrible idea, please understand that if I do not run away, I will take my own life.
I’m 14, and I plan to run away from my home. For three years, I’ve been wishing that one day, I could leave the one who calls herself my “mom.”
I have access to a credit card and will be able to buy a plane ticket to a different state, but am unsure if that is the wisest idea, as my “mother” could easily find which state and city I have gone to by looking at the credit card records and seeing the ticket I have purchased.
I have relations in a different country who I can trust to take me in and not tell my “mother” where I live, due to them understanding the circumstances. Perhaps they could buy the ticket?
I need help with a plan to get to my relations and away from my “mother.”
Do not tell me that my “mother” cares for me and is trying her best to be good to me. I am not running away for a stupid reason like “Oh! I can’t go to parties or watch TV or hang out with friends?!”
Whether you give me your help or not, I will run away or kill myself, as those are better than suffering in this hell I’m supposed to call my “home,” so if you want to be helpful, please refrain from attempting to discourage me, and help tell me how to survive, get away, and not land my relations in jail for “kidnapping.”
As the airport is somewhat far, I’m currently planning on getting a flight sometime at night. When I leave for school, I will bring the few things I might need in my backpack instead of books and walk to the airport and stay there until my flight.
Thank you for your consideration.
I know where my passport is, and can easily take it. But I’m pretty sure nobody in their right mind would sell a plane ticket to a different country to a fourteen year old handing them cash.
My mother does not know this relative, as it is not a relative from her side of the family, and my parents do not get along, so she can’t call them and charge them for kidnapping. Also, as long as I can make it out of the airport on the other side, I will be safe, as I can be picked up and driven for hours to that relatives home.
Money is not an issue.
The relative and I understand that the relative will be sent to prison and punished for kidnapping if caught. The relative understands. The relative will not leave me homeless for 18 months and will take me in even if it means risking the punishment.
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Answer by Christian
Look, if you actually do it and they find you then the people who took you in get charged and jailed for kidnapping. Family or not, its law.it is your life, i can not run it and no matter what i said, it will not probably effect you. All i can say is to find God.i use to be like you.i use to cut. I went to the hospital from where i had cut my hand half way off. Life is hell. If i can get use to it, you can too. Again, think before you do. Find God. He will help you out of this hell hole you speak off. The right way
Answer by backandforth
Believe it or not, when I was just a couple of years older than you, I ran away from my mom to live with a relative in another country who I was sure would take me in. As soon as I landed in the other country, I called the relative and he told me not to come because my mom had figured out that I had run away, contacted the police who were able to track down my name to the flight I had just taken, and so while I was still in midair she had called the relative to say if they take me in she will charge them with kidnapping. So I was stuck homeless for about 18 months and it was terrible. With that said, my situation was so bad that even though I was homeless I still don’t regret my decision. But I was extremely lucky! I can’t stress enough how much luck had to do with me even being alive today when I could just as easily have been taken down a destructive path….
If your situation is as severe as you describe, contact social services (or even start with a school counselor) so you can be placed in a group home or a foster home, or arrange to live with a relative through them. Being that young, you can’t get a job or an apartment, and people will try to take advantage of you. You can hope to be lucky as I was, but I don’t recommend it.
Answer by roger
hello please do not kill yourself that would be so sad. you deserve better your family and friends who care for you deserve better suicide is selfish so get off your pity pot and realize five minutes from now you will feel different. Its human nature sometimes we get stuck and feel trapped. That’s normal that is human. we work through our problems not with fantasies of running away and having some martyr of a family member go to prison. that is not how it works. Your young your not getting out of the country by yourself so forget that your going to end up on police custody trying it your way. you need and adult who can help you follow through.
You are special in gods eyes even if you do not believe it look into your hear women on the streets get severely abused by sick people out there they will pump you full of drugs and then your night mare really begins trust me you are not equipped to hold off the wolves out there waiting for you. we all love you and have been where your at please ask for help and go see who ever you need to see and get some help please thank you
Answer by FlagMichael
You don’t realize the legal side of what you are proposing. The relative is looking at serious charges if he or she takes you in; charges that could cost them all they have and land them in jail possibly for years. In the meantime you will be returned to your mother (you will have no choice in that) and the situation for you will be much worse than it is now. If you use a credit card that is not in your name you will be charged with credit card fraud (the issuing agency – Visa, for example – will charge you). The criminal complaint against you will have the police at your destination looking for you.
If the situation is that bad Child Protective Services in your state is where you want to go. You are not in an unusual situation – when I was 13 I spent a year with my gentle but alcoholic father and my violent alcoholic stepmother who repeatedly threatened to murder my brother and me as we slept. After that year we went back to my borderline schizophrenic mother and far worse things happened; things so bad that people would not even look at me when they found out. You really don’t want to know, but I can share that I was once left for dead.
In reality you have little choice but to hang on and wait out the remaining 4 years until you are 18. If you run away you will lose most of your legal identity and have a devil of a time doing anything even when you are 18. You will have officially dropped out of school when you ran away. If you go to another country you will be under their runaway and child custody laws, which you may find harsh. I have never met an adult who was a runaway and had a happy life, but I have known lots of people who had horrific childhoods and adolescences who hung on and moved on to a good life.
Answer by Ramon C
So, if this is all worked out, I have to wonder as to the emotional need of basically an electronic approval from strangers? If the details have been arranged, why not start? We all suffer the consequences of our actions. If you are ready to accept the possible consequences, why not proceed?
Answer by Caroline
If I were in your shoes, I’d think of a plan so detailed just to ensure that it will work. Come up with a couple plans just incase! I would book a flight with your moms credit card somewhere to the coast… not right on it though. Have enough money to take a bus to another airport. I would talk to the relatives if I were you. Try and talk them into having someone fly over and meet you at an airport and take you back with them. That way you have a chance to not be tracked as well? That’s what I would do. Also, if you plan on traveling alone this much I would encourage you to buy pepper spray JUST INCASE. You would get kidnapped… You never know. Also, have as much money on you as you can. What happens if this goes wrong? If you feel really badass, you can just take a whole bunch of bus routes all over so that it’s harder to track. Maybe you can find some sort of place far away that will take you without contacting family members? I don’t think that’s a realistic comment but you never know? Just try to travel as much as you can, as fast as you can. It’ll make it hard for your mom to track you. Also, don’t do anything that’ll leave any traces of you behind. Hope this somewhat helped.
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